Is it easy to live with unhappy people? No. Is it possible to live with them? I believe Yes. Most of the times, we might be afraid that we will be influenced by them in a negative way. This is a potential, however, it is on us to choose what to believe in and how to act. The bigger challenge is how to live with each other in harmony.
While happy people find joy in whatever happens or around them, unhappy people never satisfy with their lives. Perhaps, they keep seeking for more, perhaps, they set unrealistic expectations and get disappointed, or perhaps, they tend to criticize what they see instead of accepting things as they are. Therefore, there are many reasons for some people to avoid unhappy people. The energy around these unhappy people can be the opposite of uplifting, if not toxic.
Having said that, kindness can help. To be kind means to focus on the goodness that lies in each of every individual, to turn on the light of a dark room. To be kind means to try to understand the deepest pain that causes the unhappiness of that person. To be kind means to be ready to forgive. To be kind means to find a way to connect without trying too hard and without giving up too easily.
Even the worst person on earth has a heart. We just need to bump a little good blood into it. Happiness comes and goes but humility stays. Aren’t unhappy people in need of more happiness? However, it is always easier said than done. How could we be kind to people we do not want in our lives? Regardless if they are our family members. How about we give in? How about we observe and help when they need? How about we try to go an extra mile to listen to them? The best mindset probably is to keep trying until you feel exhausted.
Remember, unhappy people will not be happy right away, and you are not with them to please them, but to help. Therefore, no matter how they react to your being, only your actions matter. Love yourself, and love others as much as you love yourself!
